Horrible, just horrible.
My mom and I were talking about the shunning policy again the other day and I asked her "Who did Jesus hang out with? Tax collectors, thieves and whores right? And did Jesus treat anyone like garbage; even when he knew they were an unrepentant sinner on an unbeliever?"
She said, "No, I guess you have a point, but" and then proceeded to spout off some wash-towel bullshit about why the policy is good and how it works.
I then said, "I already know that, but if we are supposed to imitate Jesus, where does his humility and human decency come in on this equation? And if you really believe you are supposed to imitate him, then how can you treat ANYONE badly if you know he didn't?
She replied, "I don't know" under her breath and then said "enough about this" and quickly changed the subject.
Judging form her facial expressions and body language she was quite uncomfortable with the conversation, however I could tell that her wheels and cogs were spinning.